Think on These
Things
by Tom McLemore
Question: Mr. McLemore, My marriage is in trouble, and I think we
ought to divorce for the sake of our children.
What do you think?
Answer: Please consider the matter very carefully, and do not
act in haste. Studies have shown that
the long range effects of divorce upon children may be more serious than the
effects of a tumultuous home environment. In the case of physical or sexual
abuse, it is urgent to remove yourself and your children from the
situation. However, if you and your
spouse “fuss and fight” (and there are disagreements in most marriages), do
whatever you can to reduce the turmoil.
Be honest about how you may be contributing to the conflict, and
determine to make some changes. You
are responsible for your behavior, even if your spouse refuses to admit
the need to improve. Do not be ashamed
to seek counseling, even if your spouse will not go with you. Saving your marriage may be beyond your
control, but if it can be saved, it may be better for your children in the long
run. Best wishes.
Address questions to tommclemore@juno.com
Designed and maintained by Houston Park Church of Christ Copyright © 2000 by Houston Park Church of Christ 2 Crescent Hill Drive Selma, Alabama 36701 334-874-7941. All rights reserved. Revised: 05 May 2008.